Wednesday, March 18, 2015
Afraid
I am afraid.
I am afraid to call.
I am afraid of what I will hear.
I am afraid of losing her.
I am afraid to confront my grief.
I am afraid of being alone.
I am afraid of asking someone to be with me because I will have to explain.
I am afraid she won't make it until the weekend, when I can go to her.
I am afraid she will go before I get to her, but maybe it's better if I don't.
I am afraid that my last visit with her, was my very last.
I am afraid to tell my baby, she's already lost my mom at the tender age of 3.
I am afraid.
I am afraid.
I am afraid of waiting any longer to call.
I am afraid of waiting.
I am afraid of waking them up, when they all desperately need sleep.
I am desperately afraid to lose the woman who helped me pick up the pieces after my mom died.
I am afraid I will forget.
I am afraid I will not be able to convey her wonderful life and legacy of love in her eulogy.
I am afraid that I don't want to let her go.
I am afraid of life with out her in it.
I am afraid of losing the last person in my direct lineage that has been there for every single moment of my life.
I am afraid.
I am afraid.
I am afraid of losing my second mother.
I am afraid of losing the last person who knows all the moments of my deceased mother's life.
I am afraid of losing my last grandparent.
I am afraid of losing one of my very best friends.
I am afraid of having one less person who loves me unconditionally in the world.
I am afraid of losing the last living piece of my mother.
I am afraid to lose one of the last living pieces of my childhood.
I am afraid that all the dead relatives she is seeing are real.
I am afraid for her, as is she, that when she goes to bed that it will be the last time she lays her
head down to sleep in this world.
I am afraid that when I spoke to her yesterday, that it will be the last time.
I am afraid that when she told me goodbye yesterday, that she meant it.
I am afraid that she knows.
I am afraid to lose my Nana.
I am afraid.
Monday, March 9, 2015
Thank You Brave Soldier
Everyday I wake up in my nice, warm, cozy bed. Every day I take for granted the freedoms I am afforded by the brave men and women who serve our country. Every. Single. Day. I enjoy the right to exercise my religious freedom free from persecution, write whatever I choose on this very public forum, and I choose where to buy my groceries, never having to stand in a line for state provided allotments of food. I get to choose where my child goes to school and how big my family will grow. I take full advantage of my unlimited supply of hot, running water and electricity.
Around the world, not everyone has the luxury of these freedoms. Freedom is not free. There are those who must endure grueling training, fight the battles, spend months overseas deployed away from their mothers, fathers, spouses, children, and families to fight for the everyday freedoms we all take for granted. These are the everyday heroes that do it all for us, so that we may enjoy life as a free country. They give of themselves freely, and donate time out of their lives.....for us. You have never met most of them, they are a faceless force. A force to be reckoned with. I am glad they are on my side, fighting for me. Braving the horrors they are faced with and must endure. Dedicating their selves to our country, for me. And you, and for countless millions that will never get the opportunity or take the time to say thank you to these brave heroes, the men and women of our armed forces. I, for one, want to say thank you. I am taking the time and this opportunity, right here and right now to say thank you for your service..
I watched the following video, posted by my friend Tammy Redden, the mother of an American soldier. I cried as I watched. I felt her pain, fear, and the joy at the returning of her baby, Sgt. Brandon Redden, from Afghanistan. I can only try to imagine the long months of waiting to hear from him overseas, waiting to wrap her arms around him once more, as the holidays passed, one by one, without him. I am ever grateful to the families that are left behind, and their strength for letting your sons and daughters go. Thank you for supporting our men and women, your men and women, in the armed forces!
Sgt Brandon Redden's Return from Afghanistan
Sergeant Brandon Redden, enlisted in the United States Army during his senior year of high school. He went to basic training in July of 2011. After completing basic training at Ft. Benning, Ga. he was stationed at Ft. Hood in Texas. He was deployed in June of 2014 to Afghanistan. He just returned to the United States at the end of February. While he was in Afghanistan, he was promoted to the rank of Sergeant.
He is in the Infantry, Third Cavalry Division, Apache Troop. Before leaving Afghanistan, he was awarded the Combat Infantryman's badge. My hero is 21.
Around the world, not everyone has the luxury of these freedoms. Freedom is not free. There are those who must endure grueling training, fight the battles, spend months overseas deployed away from their mothers, fathers, spouses, children, and families to fight for the everyday freedoms we all take for granted. These are the everyday heroes that do it all for us, so that we may enjoy life as a free country. They give of themselves freely, and donate time out of their lives.....for us. You have never met most of them, they are a faceless force. A force to be reckoned with. I am glad they are on my side, fighting for me. Braving the horrors they are faced with and must endure. Dedicating their selves to our country, for me. And you, and for countless millions that will never get the opportunity or take the time to say thank you to these brave heroes, the men and women of our armed forces. I, for one, want to say thank you. I am taking the time and this opportunity, right here and right now to say thank you for your service..
I watched the following video, posted by my friend Tammy Redden, the mother of an American soldier. I cried as I watched. I felt her pain, fear, and the joy at the returning of her baby, Sgt. Brandon Redden, from Afghanistan. I can only try to imagine the long months of waiting to hear from him overseas, waiting to wrap her arms around him once more, as the holidays passed, one by one, without him. I am ever grateful to the families that are left behind, and their strength for letting your sons and daughters go. Thank you for supporting our men and women, your men and women, in the armed forces!
Sgt Brandon Redden's Return from Afghanistan
Sergeant Brandon Redden, enlisted in the United States Army during his senior year of high school. He went to basic training in July of 2011. After completing basic training at Ft. Benning, Ga. he was stationed at Ft. Hood in Texas. He was deployed in June of 2014 to Afghanistan. He just returned to the United States at the end of February. While he was in Afghanistan, he was promoted to the rank of Sergeant.
He is in the Infantry, Third Cavalry Division, Apache Troop. Before leaving Afghanistan, he was awarded the Combat Infantryman's badge. My hero is 21.
Here is what that medal looks like.
I remember when the shootings took place at Fort Hood, where this young man was stationed. I cannot imagine how his mother felt that day. I cannot imagine the horror. I prayed for him that day. Along with all the others that lost their lives, and those who came out unscathed. I prayed for him and all of our troops while he was deployed.
I do not have the pleasure of knowing this young man as an adult, but I remember him when he was a child. I love his mother, him because he is her son, and because he is an American soldier. Fighting for me, protecting me, keeping the freedoms I know and love intact. I respect this young man, and many, many others who have the courage to say, "yes" to the call.
I am an unknown American. I am unknown to these service people that defend our great nation, but one of thousands that continually pray for their safety while serving our country.
Thank you Sgt. Brandon Redden, for your time, your dedication, and your sacrifice. It has not gone unnoticed.
Thank you to my friend Tammy Redden, his mother, and his entire family, for providing such an excellent support system at home for this young soldier. You all fight the silent battle.
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